Stand Together Network

Case Study: Supporting R through Domestic Violence and Legal Battles

Client Profile 

  • Name: RG
  • Age:35
  • Nationality: Spanish
  • Residency: UK resident
  • Family:Mother of a 4-year-old boy and a 2-year-old girl 

Background

R, a 35-year-old woman of Spanish nationality, faced severe domestic violence from her ex-boyfriend, who was from Sierra Leone. The violence compelled her to flee with her children to a women’s refuge. Her ex-boyfriend subsequently applied to the family court for access to their children, which was granted for three days per week. Every handover was fraught with insults, intimidation, and stress for R, exacerbating her difficult situation. 

Initial Contact and Support

R was referred to us by a social prescriber for assistance. During our initial interviews and subsequent sessions, we listened to her problems and identified several key areas where she needed help. We provided comprehensive support through the following steps: 

  • Legal Aid and Protection Orders: We assisted R in applying for legal aid and completed an advocate application to help her secure a non-molestation order against her ex-boyfriend.
  • Housing Assistance: STN helped R apply for housing within the council and secure housing benefits to pay for a new flat that she rented privately.
  • Legal Action for Harassment: After multiple issues arose during the access handovers, we contacted a legal advisor to explore R’s legal options. Based on the advice received, we helped R file a harassment case against her ex-partner and documented every problem and breach during the access visits. This information was used to inform the court of her ex-partner’s contempt of the court order. 

Ongoing Support and Emotional Well-being

R’s situation required extensive ongoing support due to the complexity and severity of her case. STN provided continuous assistance through regular follow-up meetings, addressing various aspects of her life: 

  • Counseling and Emotional Support: Recognizing R’s emotional distress, we referred her for counseling services and continued to provide ongoing support to help her cope with the trauma.
  • Legal and Welfare Support: We remained in close contact with legal advisors to ensure R’s legal rights were protected and assisted her with welfare and benefits management.
  • Employment and Skills Development: R, who works part-time as a dinner lady at a local school, expressed her intention to continue her job. We supported her in maintaining this employment, which provided a sense of stability and normalcy. 

Client Testimonials and Reflections

R’s journey was fraught with challenges, but the support from STN made a significant difference in her life. Here are some of her reflections on the assistance provided: 

 “STN has been a lifeline for me during the most difficult time of my life. They not only helped me navigate the legal system but also provided emotional support and practical assistance that I desperately needed. The regular follow-up meetings made me feel supported and less alone in my struggles. I am incredibly grateful for their unwavering support.” 

Conclusion

Supporting R required a multifaceted approach, addressing immediate safety concerns, legal battles, emotional well-being, and long-term stability. Her case underscores the importance of comprehensive and compassionate support in helping survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives. Our continuous engagement and tailored assistance have helped R move towards a safer, more stable future for herself and her children. The dedication to her well-being and empowerment is a testament to STN’s commitment to supporting those in need. 

R’s story highlights the critical need for ongoing, holistic support in cases of domestic violence, ensuring survivors have the resources and assistance necessary to reclaim their lives and build a better future for themselves and their families. 

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